Overview
Earlier we dealt with healing the inner child. The adolescent is a lot more complicated. There are complex layers of shame, and we get stuck in patterns of martyrhood where we are misunderstood, overburdened and unappreciated. When we heal the adolescent and clear the shame, we have a healthy level of rebelliousness which leads to strong boundaries, assertiveness, confidence, authority and success.
I’ve spoken before about healing the inner child – the adolescent is a bit more complex than that. The adolescent holds more complex layers of shame, it holds onto martyrhood. Problems with the adolescent leads to being a martyr which means you are feeling unappreciated, over-burdened and misunderstood. It leads to you feeling various kinds of shame which you can’t express, which holds you back, lowers your self-worth, lowers your capacity for success. If you have any of these problems, quite often it’s the adolescent that needs dealing with.
As I said, it’s more complicated than the child. When we learn to heal the adolescent – free him of his complex shame and martyrhood, it frees you to be more naturally rebellious. A healthy level of rebellion leads to stronger boundaries, will, confidence, assertiveness and authority. When you join this workshop and actually heal the adolescent, you’re going to flourish more and come into your full power and be able to assert yourself in life and get what you want. And it strengthens your boundaries so you’re not being put down by others and affected by others. And particularly, it’s going to overcome this long pattern people have of martyrhood. How do you know you are being a martyr? – any time you feel over-burdened, misunderstood, unappreciated – all these things have their roots in adolescence. When you heal this, those patterns are going to end and you’ll be free. So, if you’d like to join me on this journey to become free, please join me on the Magickal Membership workshop.
